Letter to my Girl – Part 1

Watching you grow is a bliss my love,

you make me glow like a rainbow..

Love as pure as your’s is difficult to find..

In this rough world you manage to make others smile with your toothless smile..

And my tiny lil girl you will be through..

When life will be difficult to you..

just remember words few.. 😊

Dear Love,

The day you were born, not all were happy I know.. Many wished you were a boy as this is a male dominated society you will come to know..

But don’t be sad my lovely girl as there were some waiting for you right since you were inside her womb..

It makes me both sad and angry my love, but I am not sorry because you are born to fight..

This is the beginning, I warn you lil boss.. it is a long rough path that you have to cross..

Now they couldnot kill you in he womb..
neither can now they put you in the well of death..

So be ready to fight my love, because they will find a way to kill you anyhow..

By killing I don’t mean that they will stop your breath.. but they will not let you live like you would have dreamt..

I know you are a born fighter love.. but it will be a tough fight remember though..

In the mean time never let anyone snatch your smile.. 😘 And remember I am always by your side..

Some DREAM, some SCREAM – yes, i am talking about MARRIAGE..

Not sure about other countries, but in India.. your marriage is discussed right from the day you are born…😅

So, many of us grow up with the idea of getting married as the key milestone to be achieved..

While some Boys dream of riding the horse to his Queen’s palace..

Some Girls dream of being the princess of the prince on the horse..

Then there are some who just don’t get this idea of marrying..

Some who just scream on hearing the word itself..

Well, every coin has two sides.

The funniest part are the reasons to get married..

1) Cause you have to settle down… you are not settled unless you are married and you have kids..

2) Cause you are growing old..

3) Cause your friends are getting married..

4) Cause how long can parents feed you..

5) Cause you may loose out on the best guys /girls if you delay..

6) Cause it will be difficult to have kids after 30..

7) Cause your parents are ill..

8) Cause it’s your grandmother’s last wish..

9) Cause what will people think..

10) Cause you have a degree, a job.. what’s next..

11) Cause a girl’s true home is her husband’s home..

12) Cause she wants to wear a designer lehenga..

13) Cause you are lonely..

14) Cause it gives you the licence to have sex..

15) Cause she/he is beautiful/handsome, rich and educated..

16) Cause this is the ultimate step towards happiness..

Really??? Is this what you should get married for???

No.. a big NO..

Marry when you are ready to get married..

Marry when you are ready to accept the changes..

Marry when you are ready to accept the responsibilities..

Marry when you find some one you want to spend your life with..

Marry when you find someone who understands and respects you..

Marry when you find someone who loves you..

Marry when you are ready to adjust..

Marry when you are ready to compromise sometimes..

Marry when you find a true companion..

Marry when you are able to treat each other equal in all respects..

Do not rush and complicate your life unless you are ready.. cause it is a big change..

Let them give any reason..

As it is said..

Listen to all, but follow only your heart. ❤️