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Some DREAM, some SCREAM – yes, i am talking about MARRIAGE..

Not sure about other countries, but in India.. your marriage is discussed right from the day you are born…😅

So, many of us grow up with the idea of getting married as the key milestone to be achieved..

While some Boys dream of riding the horse to his Queen’s palace..

Some Girls dream of being the princess of the prince on the horse..

Then there are some who just don’t get this idea of marrying..

Some who just scream on hearing the word itself..

Well, every coin has two sides.

The funniest part are the reasons to get married..

1) Cause you have to settle down… you are not settled unless you are married and you have kids..

2) Cause you are growing old..

3) Cause your friends are getting married..

4) Cause how long can parents feed you..

5) Cause you may loose out on the best guys /girls if you delay..

6) Cause it will be difficult to have kids after 30..

7) Cause your parents are ill..

8) Cause it’s your grandmother’s last wish..

9) Cause what will people think..

10) Cause you have a degree, a job.. what’s next..

11) Cause a girl’s true home is her husband’s home..

12) Cause she wants to wear a designer lehenga..

13) Cause you are lonely..

14) Cause it gives you the licence to have sex..

15) Cause she/he is beautiful/handsome, rich and educated..

16) Cause this is the ultimate step towards happiness..

Really??? Is this what you should get married for???

No.. a big NO..

Marry when you are ready to get married..

Marry when you are ready to accept the changes..

Marry when you are ready to accept the responsibilities..

Marry when you find some one you want to spend your life with..

Marry when you find someone who understands and respects you..

Marry when you find someone who loves you..

Marry when you are ready to adjust..

Marry when you are ready to compromise sometimes..

Marry when you find a true companion..

Marry when you are able to treat each other equal in all respects..

Do not rush and complicate your life unless you are ready.. cause it is a big change..

Let them give any reason..

As it is said..

Listen to all, but follow only your heart. ❤️

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